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Why Your Husband or Boyfriend Cheats... We all know that both men and women have been cheating in their marriages ever since the institution was invented. Some studies suggest that anywhere from one third to one half of marriages will experience an episode of infertility at one time or another. Men, in particular, seem to be prone to cheating in their marriages. Some men are lured away by the challenge and excitement of having an affair. The risk of getting caught alone can push some men to cheat in their marriage. Other men see sexual encounters as a sign of their virility or their manhood, and may go through life, even after marriage, going from one sexual conquest to another. Some men cheat in their marriage because they don’t feel that they have enough intimacy at home. If a man does not feel like his wife wants to have sex with him, the base sexual desire can take over and lead a man to cheat in his marriage. Other men might cheat on their wife because the wife cheated first. He sees it as a way to get revenge for being betrayed by committing the same betrayal.\ Sometimes, a man will just feel like he doesn’t love his wife anymore. If a man feels that he is being nagged, or doesn’t enjoy his wife’s company, he may cheat. If he is no longer attracted to his wife as she gets older or as her body shape changes, he may lose his attraction for her. Other men cheat in their marriage as a way to boos their ego. They may feel unappreciated or berated at home, and by engaging in an affair, they feel as though they are desirable. Ultimately, there is no good reason for a man to cheat in his marriage. While some of the above things might be the particular event or situation that causes a man to consider cheating on his marriage, having an affair is not the best way to deal with these things. A simple conversation between husband and wife can erase these problems; in other cases, marital therapy or marriage counseling may help. Don't break your marriage just because of these unwanted things. Love your partner and respect each other. If you have any questions about why your husband or boyfriend is cheating on you, then I encourage you to read about the Affair Detector program. Best of luck,
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